The Body Keeps the Score

by Bessel van der Kolk

Bex Review:

The Body Keeps the Score is a profoundly insightful exploration of the long-term effects of trauma on the brain, body, and emotions, and the diverse paths to healing. Written with both clinical expertise and compassionate storytelling, the book illuminates the often-misunderstood world of trauma recovery with clarity, depth, and hope.

One of the most striking aspects of the book is how it blends science with lived experience. Through real-life case studies, van der Kolk demonstrates how trauma leaves an imprint not only on the mind but also on the body and brain: “It is not only an event that took place sometime in the past, it is also the imprint left by that experience on mind, brain, and body.” This understanding forms the backbone of the book — trauma is not just a memory, but a somatic legacy.

The book provides detailed explanations of the nervous system and trauma responses, breaking down concepts like fight, flight, freeze, and collapse, as well as alexithymia, depersonalisation, and the interplay between emotional and rational brain functions. Metaphors such as comparing the emotional and rational brain to “a more or less competent rider and his unruly horse” make these complex ideas accessible, highlighting the challenges trauma survivors face in remaining in control.

A particularly empowering message is the reframing of post-traumatic reactions as efforts to survive, turning shame into compassion and providing context to experiences that may otherwise feel like personal failure. The book emphasises that healing is about regaining connection — with our bodies, minds, and fellow human beings: “Recovery from trauma involves (re)connection with our fellow human beings.”

Van der Kolk also explores a wide range of treatment approaches, from EMDR and yoga to neurofeedback and psychedelic-assisted therapies, illustrating how innovative, body-focused, and creative approaches can support recovery. These examples underscore the importance of interventions that integrate mind and body to foster resilience, emotional regulation, and a sense of safety.

Above all, The Body Keeps the Score is a book of hope. It emphasises that healing is possible when mind, body, and brain are supported in an environment of safety and compassion: “In order to recover, mind, body, and brain need to be convinced that it is safe to let go.” The book serves as both a roadmap to understanding trauma and a guide to reclaiming agency, connection, and well-being.

I highly recommend this book to anyone interested in mental health, trauma, or the healing professions, as well as to anyone who has experienced trauma or supported someone who has. It is an enlightening and compassionate resource, offering profound insight into the journey of recovery.